Reclaiming Your Time

It started with one hour.  I just decided one day. I made up my mind that my kids would get one hour a day – uninterrupted.  My husband wanted the kids to play outside for an hour, and he does not get home until after the street lights come on.  Therefore, the hour outside was up to me.  The fall weather change made the transition so simple. We stayed out until we could hardly see the football sailing through the air before we confirmed that nightfall cut our evening short.  Sometimes our hour was done.  Other times, we finished with play time upstairs.

As I glanced around while they played, I noticed the layers of dirt that had accumulated on the walls and doors.  I made a mental note of the clothes strewn on floors and furniture in any given room along with the toys in almost every corner of every space both upstairs and downstairs.  Not one single room was warm nor inviting.  I could ignore it all when my face was buried in the phone creating perfectly curated photographs and engaging with the perfectly curated photos of others.  Yet, here I was face to face with my reality.

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I began to look forward to that phone free hour.  I looked forward to the freedom.  I began to learn the names of my son’s tank engines that he does not talk about with his classmates at school.  They only know his obsession with Mario.  They do not know he still treasures the “Thomas” sections at Wal-Mart and Target.  I learned that my daughter can read one book after another after another.  I learned that my other son preferred hot wheels to trains, and he was in the process of teaching his robot to clean the room.

More than a few times, I spent the hour directing the children to a clutter free room.  I showed them which toys belonged in a toy box and which were large enough to line the walls.  We cleaned up the trash.  We cleared the Thomas minis, legos, and shopkins from corners, between, and behind beds.  More than once I wasted that hour.

Yet, even in the wasted time, I found myself.  I found a girl I did not even know was lost.  I lost her trying to overcome overwhelmed.  I lost her when I went all in.  I was not wrong then.  I did what I needed to do to survive.  I am always the first to admit when some mindset that I had was completely incorrect, but I was not incorrect.  I was doing what I could to make it.

In that hour, I realized that it was time to do more than make it.  I rested.  I relaxed.  I regrouped.  I recharged, and now it was time for more.  It was time to do more than survive.

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I began to pick up the pieces.  I began to reclaim my time.

I began to clean up room by room, and by clean, I mean more than the house.  I began to clean my health.  I began to clean my schedule.  I began to clean my mentality.  I began the process of breaking bad habits that formed while I was not looking, that grew while I was just trying to be okay.  The more I cleaned, the more I questioned how I had been spending my time before.

I spent my time before investing myself into a virtual reality to escape my actual reality.  That was fine for then, but not for now…because of one hour, my mindset shifted. And for that, I am forever grateful.

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For anyone seeking to reclaim your time, start by losing yourself for an hour.  Invest yourself into someone else – your children, your spouse, your family, your church, or your community.  Give yourself fully to someone who can never afford to repay you, and watch your life change.  Watch as you transform from the inside out.  Reclaiming your time has nothing to do with your schedule.  Reclaiming your time is not about your to-do list.  You reclaim your time the moment you begin to recognize that you want more…and you decide that today is where you will begin to find it.

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What are some ways that you reclaim your time?

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  1. I think I reclaim my time by putting my phone in another room and being present in the moment I am in. I try to invest wholly without being distracted by things that aren’t important at the moment.

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  2. Another amazing post! Girl, I love the way you write, and this remaining an hour by investing yourself in someone else is such a good idea! It makes me happy to read how it’s working for you!
    I think a lot of things that you teach them during those times will be life lessons that will not only help them and others down the road but also may come back as a blessing to you.
    Cute pic of the kids, by the way!

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  3. Well this is a timely post for me! I am slowly, very very slowly, starting to reclaim my time. Some days I have more success than others, but this is a great reminder for me to keep moving…even if it isn’t always forwards 🙂 God Bless!!

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  4. I am glad you found your self, when you started spending an hour with your kids. Just 1 hour transformed your life, and the results are still coming! That is Awesome! I too found more time for myself by spending 1 day each week off social media — for me that is no FB, no twitter, no emails. I eagerly look forward to that day each week. For me it is Sunday, and I set that day aside to spend with God and me, and my husband if we decide to sit and relax on our screened porch for an hour or so. I hope your post will encourage other people to take a 1 hour break (or more) from the internet.

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  5. Girl you be right on time with the blogpost. I really need to try this. I have been teying so hard to “keep up” that Im just surviving and not living. Im sure my kids would appreciate an hour of me uninterrupted.

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    1. It is truly life changing. There is no keeping up. There will always be something to do. I have prayed on what groups and activities God needs me to do for my blog and social media. Everything else has to go, and He is filling that space with family. I always feel drained when I spend way too much time doing blog stuff, and photo planning for collaborations, and social media engagement. I need REAL-LIFE engagement.

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  6. This is such an awesome post! I love the fact that you “lost yourself” for an hour, and ended up finding yourself again. It’s amazing what an hour can do for our outlook. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, once again, so eloquently. I want to really live, and not just be in survival mode!

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  7. This is so inspirational. How we use our time is so important. I have been reclaiming my time by setting aside time each week to plan and pray.

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  8. Yes. Yes. Yes. Put the phone down. Reclaim your time. Our kids grow up so, so fast and you want them to know as they’re growing that you are present, available, and attentive, so that when they’re older, they’ll turn to you for advice or to sound things out–instead of their friends. And of course, you need to be present for yourself in authentic ways.

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